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Sermon Discussion Guide - 07/27/2025
note to self - seeing what god sees:
beyond compare
Sermon Recap
In this sermon, Dallas unpacks the danger of comparison and its power to rob us of joy, identity, and calling. Drawing from Galatians 6 and John 21, he reminds us that each of us has a God-given “lane” to run in, and trying to live someone else’s life will only weigh us down. Jesus doesn’t call us to compare, but to follow. The message encourages believers to carry each other’s burdens, take ownership of their unique callings, and focus on faithfulness over envy.
Ice Breakers
- Have you ever completely misunderstood how to win a game (and proudly celebrated anyway)?
- What’s the most “extra” thing you’ve ever done to keep up with someone else (intentionally or not)?
- If your life were a race event, what kind would it be - relay, hurdles, obstacle course, or a three-legged race?
Discussion Questions
- Context: The story of speed skater Sven Kramer illustrates how listening to the wrong voice can lead us out of the lane we were meant to run.
- Application: What are the voices or areas of life that tempt you to compare or feel “behind”? How does that affect your joy or motivation?
- Context: Galatians 6:2–5 calls us to bear others’ burdens (overwhelming weights) while also carrying our own loads (our responsibilities and blessings).
- Application: Are you currently trying to carry more than God asked of you? Where do you need to release comparison or pride?
- Context: Peter, after being restored by Jesus, still asked about John's future instead of focusing on his own calling (John 21).
- Application: When have you missed celebrating your own blessing because you were distracted by someone else’s? What helps you refocus?
- Context: Dallas encouraged the church to clearly define their lane - the calling, gifts, or responsibilities God has uniquely entrusted to them.
- Application: How would you describe your “lane” in this season? What specific purpose might God be calling you to embrace more fully?
- Context: The message outlined guardrails like gratitude, contentment, and genuine celebration of others’ success.
- Application: Which guardrail do you need to strengthen right now? What’s one practice that can help you walk in joy rather than comparison?
Prayer
- Pray for freedom from comparison and clarity in each person's unique calling
- Ask for humility to celebrate others’ blessings and courage to carry our own loads
- Thank God for the ways He works through us, even when it doesn’t feel impressive
- Invite the Spirit to give contentment, direction, and peace
Leader Tip
Comparison thrives in silence. In your group, foster an environment where people can speak confidently about both their burdens and their blessings. When group members share a win, even a small one, celebrate it enthusiastically. Gratitude is contagious, and celebration helps break comparison’s grip. Encourage honest reflection and joyful affirmation throughout your time together.