Sermon Discussion Guide - 06/29/2025

Published June 29, 2025
Sermon Discussion Guide - 06/29/2025

note to self - seeing what god sees:
already accepted

Sermon Recap

In this message from Luke 19, we explore Jesus' encounter with Zacchaeus to understand how deeply God sees and accepts us. Pastor Aaron challenges the exhausting pursuit of approval from others and reminds us that, like Zacchaeus, we are chosen and accepted not because of our performance, but because of God's grace. Through vulnerability and personal reflection, we are invited to live in the freedom of being already accepted in Christ.

Ice Breakers

  • What’s the worst haircut you’ve ever had?
  • Have you ever had a fashion or style choice you instantly regretted? What was it?
  • If your personality had a theme song, what would it be and why?
  • Discussion Questions

    1. Where do you find your worth?
    • Context: Aaron shared his internal struggle with needing approval before shaving his head - wanting others to validate something he already desired.
    • Application: In what ways do you find yourself needing others' approval before making decisions? How does this affect your relationship with God and others?
    2. What does God see when He looks at you?
    • Context: Zacchaeus was seen by society as a “notorious sinner,” but Jesus called him by name and chose him before any change occurred.
    • Application: How do you think God sees you? What would change in your life if you truly believed you were already accepted by Him?
    3. Are you hiding or hustling?
    • Context: The sermon identifies two common patterns: hiding (staying small and quiet) or hustling (striving to impress). Both are rooted in a need for approval.
    • Application: Which tendency do you relate to more - hiding or hustling? How might you begin to live more freely in your identity in Christ?
    4. What patterns do you need to name and shift?
    • Context: The sermon encouraged naming a judgment or expectation that shapes us and intentionally shifting a behavior to reflect God’s truth.
    • Application: What is one lie or pressure you often believe about your identity or worth? What is one small step you can take this week to live from God’s acceptance instead?
    5. What would it look like to rest in grace?
    • Context: Jesus called Zacchaeus without a performance-based checklist. Paul echoes this in Colossians, reminding us that Christ is the substance, not shadows of rule-keeping.
    • Application: How does resting in grace challenge your current view of spiritual growth or community belonging? Where do you need to let go of performance?

    Prayer

  • Pray for freedom from approval-seeking and for a deep sense of being seen and accepted by God.
  • Pray for the courage to name and release unhealthy patterns shaped by expectations.
  • Pray with gratitude for the grace of Jesus that invites us to live honestly and freely.
  • Encourage group members to share any personal burdens or praises as you close in prayer together.
  • Leader Tip

    This week's message invites deep vulnerability. As a leader, model authenticity by sharing your own experience with needing approval or wrestling with self-worth. When you go first, it creates safety for others to follow. Remember: small group isn’t about fixing people—it’s about creating space for grace to be seen and experienced in real life. Stay curious, listen well, and celebrate small moments of honesty.

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