Sermon Discussion Guide - 03/08/2026

Published March 7, 2026
Sermon Discussion Guide - 03/08/2026

Kings and Kingdoms:
A Different Kind of King

Sermon Recap

This sermon contrasted how people judge by appearance with how God looks at the heart, tracing that theme through David’s anointing and his battle with Goliath. From 1 Samuel 16–17, the message emphasized that God values faithfulness over appearance, and ultimately pointed to Jesus as the King who fights for us and leads us into real victory.

Ice Breakers

  • What’s a product you bought way too quickly just because the packaging looked really convincing?
  • If you had to be in charge of bringing lunch to a big event, what would you bring and why?

  • What’s something simple that makes you feel way more prepared than you probably actually are?

Discussion Questions

1. Have you ever felt overlooked, underestimated, or like someone else was the obvious choice over you? What happened?
  • Context: When Samuel came to Jesse’s house, everyone expected one of the stronger, more impressive sons to be chosen. But God made it clear that while people look at outward appearance, He looks at the heart, and David was the one God had chosen. 
  • Application: How might God be inviting you to stop measuring yourself by appearance, résumé, or other people’s expectations, and start trusting what He sees in you?

2. When was a time you had to keep doing the right thing even though it felt small, unnoticed, or unimportant?
  • Context: After David was anointed, he didn't step straight into the spotlight. He kept serving, tending sheep, comforting Saul, and even bringing food to his brothers. The sermon highlighted that being chosen by God does not always mean being immediately showcased.
  • Application: What “small” act of faithfulness might God be asking you to keep doing right now, even if nobody seems to notice?

    3. What is something in your life or around you that you may have slowly gotten used to, even though deep down you know it should be confronted?
    • Context: While the rest of Israel had grown used to Goliath’s daily threats, David immediately saw that something was wrong. The sermon asked where fear may have pushed us to tolerate what we know should be challenged. 
    • Application: Where do you need courage to stop tolerating what fear has taught you to accept?

      4. What past experience(s) helped build your trust in God for what you are facing now?
      • Context: David’s confidence was not random or impulsive. He remembered how God had been faithful before, protecting him from lions and bears, and that history with God gave him courage for the battle in front of him. 
      • Application: How could remembering and sharing God’s past faithfulness strengthen your faith in your current season?

        5. When you feel overwhelmed, are you more likely to rely on yourself or to ask for help?
        • Context: The sermon made clear that David’s victory was not about self-confidence but God-confidence: “This battle belongs to the Lord.” That theme ultimately pointed to Jesus, the King who fights for us and gives us victory over the deeper enemies we cannot defeat on our own. 
        • Application: What would it look like for you to take your next step with Jesus instead of trying to face your battles in your own strength?

          Prayer

          • Make sure to spend time in prayer as a group when you meet.
          • Have group members share prayer requests, and pray for them. 
            • You could have one person pray for all the requests, or each member pray for one person. 
            • Keep a record of those requests and ask about them on a weekly basis.

          Leader Tip

          This week, resist the pressure to have every answer ready. Your role is not to impress the group but to help people process what God is doing in their lives, and that often starts with thoughtful questions, careful listening, and a prepared heart. Let the guide serve as a starting point, not a script, and trust that God can do meaningful work through honest conversation. As a leader, you are a people shepherd, not a Bible encyclopedia.